Many gifted artists have died all too young, their enormous promise not entirely fulfilled. Among the most famous: the poets Keats and Shelley, composers Mozart and Schubert, singers Fritz Wunderlich and Kathleen Ferrier, and violinists Ginette Neveu and Michael Rabin.
Jan. 19 is the 40th anniversary of Rabin’s tragic death at the age of 35. His authorized biography — authorized by his surviving older sister, Francine — has just been revised and updated: “Michael Rabin: America’s Virtuoso Violinist,” by Anthony Feinstein, professor of psychiatry at the University of Toronto.
The book answers a number of questions about Rabin. What accounted for the swift decline of his musical career? What did he die of? Did he commit suicide, as some people have claimed?
Above all, what went wrong?
Certainly he was an especially gifted violinist. He began playing at age 7, and made solo appearances at Carnegie Hall at ages 13 and 15. Critics hailed him as a new Jascha Heifeitz. He played the violin during the film “Rhapsody,” with Elizabeth Taylor. He was the youngest soloist ever to appear on the prestigious “Telephone Hour.” Olin Downes, a New York Times critic, wrote: “Mr. Rabin appears to us to have simply everything.” He toured all over the world. But while critics never doubted his amazing virtuosity, there were questions about his expressiveness. (When one watches a film of him playing today, he sometimes seems so bored that he might have been painting a wall.)
Sadly, his was not a well-rounded personality. He was uni-dimensional, and he was bitter about it. Playing the violin magnificently was the chief prop to his self-esteem. And everyone agrees why: His mother, Jeanne, a failed musician herself, wanted to triumph vicariously through her son, and she turned him into a classic “mama’s boy.”
While she surely deserves some sympathy, she is portrayed in the biography as the "Mother from Hell." Rabin himself referred to her as his musical mentor…and his musical tormentor. And he told a friend (one of very, very few), “My mother sees me as the career she always wanted.”
Francine, his sister, told the author Feinstein, “Unlike Michael, I had friends, and they would come to our apartment…. Sometimes my mother would be yelling at Michael, and I remember beng embarrassed because my friends were there and my mother was screaming at Michael…. He probably got hit if he played a note out of tune sometimes. Or she would demand that he play a passage 100 times. Extraordinary things like that….”
And again: “We didn’t dare disobey her in anything she told us to do. If we protested, she smacked us around a little bit.”
Rabin himself was resentful: “I can’t take it very much longer. God damn, you’d think I’m an infant the way she treats me and makes the fool of me in front of people. It’s embarrassing and belittling.”
In any case, practicing six to eight hours a day leaves you little time to read, to socialize, to make friends, to play, to grow. The same has been said about the cold, aloof, intellectually shallow Jascha Heifitz.