
BY CAROL ABAYA
NEWJERSEYNEWSROOM.COM
THE SANDWICH GENERATION
Question: "My mother (88) is in a nursing home and cannot join us for the holidays. This is the first year she will not be physically with us. We do not know what to do. She always gave my three children marvelous Christmas gifts. Now there will be none. How do I explain this to the children?"
Answer: Visiting a loved relative or friend in the hospital, nursing home can be stressful — both for the patient and the visitor. It’s not easy to see someone who was once vital and energetic now bed bound.
First you need to explain to your children why grandma will not be at your house for Christmas, so that they will be prepared. Explain her illness, if possible. Children are more understanding than many parents give them credit for.







